Carbon footprints are a measure of the amount of environmental impact a person leaves in their wake. This summer I am aware of another kind of footprint – more of a heartprint – moments that make us, change us, somehow alter and impact the landscape of our lives.
Today, I’d like to share some footprints, or moments, from my summer – memorable, meaningful, and life-changing. Be blessed! [Read more…]
**Summer has sweet ways to refresh our souls. So, this week’s blog I’m sharing some summer thoughts from a post I wrote last August – on island life. I hope this post refreshes you and reminds you of long, hot summer days, the feel of sand between your toes and salty breezes blowing through your hair – carefree days that are less about doing and all about being. God bless your summer days, friend!
I am a newbie island girl.
For the past four years my husband and I have lived life on a long, thin island, surrounded by the Pacific Ocean, ever a ferry ride away from “the mainland”. [Read more…]
Entering the church at my dear friend’s wedding some 28 years ago, I was met by an unexpected sight – a live cow stood in a stall, directly behind the front doors – in the center of the entry hall; right next to the guest book. It might have been the smell I remember best.
The point of the cow was to tell everyone that this was a ten cow wife.
No ordinary woman, but a precious and treasured woman, worth not one, but ten cows.
The bride had grown up as a missionary kid in Africa where her dad was a long time bush pilot. My friend had stood out among the native tribes – with her long ash blond hair and sweet disposition – she was seen as a catch. Her dad had been approached on several occasions with offers of marriage for his beautiful daughter, once being offered the large sum of a whole ten cows as a bride price.
Her dad gave the sermon at this wedding, and he told the story of another ten cow wife from his missionary journeys.
I tell the story, as best as I remember, to remind us of the importance of treating our spouses as great treasure.
Once upon a time… there was a man who fell in love with a lovely woman from a nearby tribe. She captured his heart from the first, and he decided she was the woman he must marry. He was a man of fair means, and had the ability to purchase a bride of great value, as he had a dowry of an entire ten cows at his disposal.
The woman he had chosen, was a woman of good character, attractive stature, and from a family of good standing, but not of ten cow caliber, as considered by the community. She was, perhaps, a five cow wife.
The young man went to her parents to bargain for the woman his heart had settled upon, and much to the surprise of the community he insisted on paying a ten cow dowry to the woman’s family, for such was the value he felt for her.
You know the rest of the story, from that day on this woman’s value changed, she was now looked upon as a truly treasured wife – a woman of great value. From that day on, she became a ten cow wife.
Our treatment of our spouses reflects on their value.
When we treat our husbands and wives with great reverence and respect, when we favor them, they become favored ones.
Oh, that my words and my actions would surround my loved ones, that they would know the great value and treasure they are to me.
The story of the ten cow wife reminds me of our relationship with God; God describes us as His treasured bride. It’s an amazing truth – you and I are God’s beloved.
Like the ten cow wife – God chose you.
Like the ten cow wife – God paid an exorbitant price for you.
Like the ten cow wife – God enters into a covenant love relationship with you.
“As a young man marries a young woman,
So will Your builder marry you;
As a bridegroom rejoices over his bride,
So will Your God rejoice over you.”
Isaiah 62:5
What a picture of our covenant relationship with God – we are His treasured bride and He rejoices over us – ‘as a bridegroom rejoices over his bride’.
A treasure of great worth. A gift of great joy!
**Lord, thank you for not only loving us, but rejoicing over us! Give us Your heart and eyes to see our spouses as You do and teach us to treasure them. To You be the glory!
A Personal Note: The last wedding photo is a picture of my daughter and her hubby, Sean. For those who’ve been following and praying for our family since Sean’s diagnosis of pancreatic cancer, here’s the update….Sean’s cancer is not operable at this time, so he’s chosen a promising experimental treatment of a radioactive chemo and we are thankful and hopeful for God’s hand of healing with and through this choice. I thank you deeply for your prayerful support!
Several years ago, one of my daughters was experiencing a “lull” – an in-between time.
She’d taken a much-needed break from the four-year college routine and was working full-time. For her, it was a good choice – she was experiencing work life – and taking time to re-motivate for school.
Have you ever been in a lull? Not always the easiest place to be.
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I remember a Sunday morning at church with my family several years ago when I was “caught” arguing with my daughter.
The worst part wasn’t the argument, but the person who saw it.
My harsh words finished, I looked up and my eyes met the eyes of one of the women I admire most at church, a national speaker at Christian conferences on family issues. She looked away quickly, embarrassed, by the scene she had just witnessed in my family. I can tell you, I was even more humiliated, wishing I had not fought with my daughter, and, wishing that she had not witnessed it.
I was probably more sick about being witnessed in this family “scene” than the argument itself. [Read more…]
