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The Ten Cow Wife

March 24, 2021

Entering the church at my dear friend’s wedding some 28 years ago, I was met by an unexpected sight – a live cow stood in a stall, directly behind the front doors – in the center of the entry hall; right next to the guest book.  It might have been the smell I remember best.

The point of the cow was to tell everyone that this was a ten cow wife.

No ordinary woman, but a precious and treasured woman, worth not one, but ten cows.

The bride had grown up as a missionary kid in Africa where her dad was a long time bush pilot. My friend had stood out among the native tribes – with her long ash blond hair and sweet disposition – she was seen as a catch. Her dad had been approached on several occasions with offers of marriage for his beautiful daughter, once being offered the large sum of a whole ten cows as a bride price.

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· Family Life, Heart Life, Self Life

The Lord Will Bring Us Back – A Prayer for Returning

January 1, 2021

It’s a new day.

2020 is behind us and aren’t we ready to step forward onto new ground? I’m longing for a return to something – many people are calling it ‘a return to normal’ – but, truly, I’m longing for something more.

This past week my daughter came home from her Midwest home where she attends graduate school for a much needed family time. It felt almost like a family huddle – we drew near – we sat close….ahhhh (I did wear my mask and we each did a 2 week quarantine prior) – it was much needed time after the past several months for our family.

The day of her arrival I couldn’t eat breakfast, I lost my appetite in my excitement. Then, I left for the ferry in my house slippers and didn’t notice until I was part way to the mainland, and it was too late to change! Her coming home entirely discombobulated me. [Read more…]

· Family Life, Heart Life, Prayer Life, Uncategorized

Choose Life – Even When Facing the Diagnosis

October 1, 2020

You may have noticed it’s been a bit quiet in this corner of the world. It’s true. I’m one of those people who when facing life’s hardest stuff – I get quiet – I don’t move, perhaps if I stop it will somehow go away?

 

I’ll be honest, I’ve wrestled with whether to share this as I’m a deeply private person. Getting personal has been a repeated struggle for me in writing.  I think that’s why my words kinda stopped this month, because I wasn’t ready to be real and I must. So, here goes…. [Read more…]

· Family Life, Heart Life, Self Life

57 1/2 Snippets of Wisdom I’d Tell My Younger Self

May 30, 2019

It had to happen and 57 1/2 seemed a good time. I’m drawn to all lists. Period. Love ‘em. Given that, it’s no surprise I’m drawn to the ‘What I Would Tell My Younger Self’ lists. So, today I give my version – oddly numbered, a little like me. It’s just in time for Emily P. Freeman’s ‘What I’m Learning’ Link Up here.

I’m in my 57 ½ year of life, but for the sake of the list the ½ refers to ‘the how’ for each item. I’m coming to see ‘the how’s’ of life are very important. Sometimes, the most important part. ‘The how’ is the attitude – our approach – to the thing we’re doing. Not. To. Be. Forgotten.

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· Family Life, Self Life, Things I've Learned

What I’m Learning From My Three Year Old Grandson About Learning to Walk Again

August 28, 2018

Have you ever watched a child attempting to walk? It begins slowly. It begins way before walking is possible. It begins with sitting.

Core muscles need to be in place – the abdomen muscles – the ole’ six-pack – is needed to stand. And, we can go back even further – walking requires the strength to hold up one’s head. A developmental task for the 1-2 month old. All needed developmentally before learning to walk.

Life is like that. It must be built upon. It is not a one step deal. It is one small step – then, another – then, another.

Learning to walk requires many baby steps. The last step is the legs which gain strength and balance. The strength to stand. [Read more…]

· Faith Life, Family Life, Things I've Learned

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I live on an island, in the country. A sweet combination. I spend way too much time sitting on a ferry to get to the mainland and my people, thinking about how I should be weeding and pruning our 5 acres, or driving down country roads taking pictures. Nature grabs me – taking pictures delights me. I love to capture nature’s messiness – the wild wonder, the abundant extravagance of blurred green and blue landscapes. I write for similar reasons – to capture small glimpses of the wonders of God, to hold up God’s Word and see the beauty of His holiness. Small snapshots of His glory. I’m so glad you’re here. (for a wee bit more about me. read here)

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